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Post by ShadowWarrior on Mar 11, 2013 22:08:38 GMT -5
Ok guys, I have a problem right now. I have this one best friend who is like, an absolute sister to me. We played soccer together and we have been through soooo much together. Now, this problem all started Saturday when we had soccer ref training. There was this boy there I knew and, mind my language, he is a complete man-whore. He is 14 and has already asks girls to have sex with him. Anyways, back to the soccer ref training. That day, she said that he looked kind of cute(he isn't) and I told her not to mess with him. I told her all the things he had done and told her he was a man-whore. I even told her that I was fine with her messing with almost any other guy, just not him The next day, Sunday, at our youth orchestra rehearsal, she tells me that she was talking to Mark(the man-whore) over Facebook. Now this was a slap in the face to me. I felt, I dunno, betrayed almost. He was talking about how he wanted to finger her, make out with her and date her. He mentioned that he dreamed inappropriately about her and I raged. I mean, she is practicall my sister and this perverted bastard was saying these sickening things to her. But she wasn't making a big deal out of it and it pissed me off because I was scared for her. The next day, I talk to her at choir about it and she says that she is done messing with him and that he is totally gross and that she respects my advice and respects me. But when I checked Facebook, I saw that they were friends on Facebook and that he commented on a picture of her. I really want to send him a comment saying to stay the fuck away from my best friend but I don't know what to do. Did my sister lie to me and is she still communicating with him? Should I do something about him? What should I do, guys? I'm stumped.  |
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Post by Internal Nova on Mar 11, 2013 22:22:51 GMT -5
Honestly, m'dear cousin, I would tell her parents about what is going on. There is NO need or there should be NO intention on having sex at the age of 13-14-15. That is wrong. This guy needs to be... I dunno what you want me to call it, just say, like, get the hell away from her. She is not to be messed with, and if he keeps doing it, tell her parents, tell your parents, and tell his parents. NO ONE and I mean NO ONE should have to deal with this, and shouldn't go with this. ~Sabra~
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Post by ShadowWarrior on Mar 11, 2013 22:40:03 GMT -5
Thanks cous and I would tell her parents would then I have a feeling she will get in trouble for not saying those things and she'll hate me for just about ever. I would tell my parents but then they will look down upon Maria and think she is a slut or something. Though I sorta told my dad...just didn't add it in full detail or anything. And trust me, I know there should be no intention of having sex at 13-14-15. Not even 16-17! And I want to message him that but i'm scared about pulling myself in this because he may come after me and he is like, 4 inches taller than I am. Can you see how I am stuck?
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Post by Internal Nova on Mar 11, 2013 22:58:26 GMT -5
Yeah I do. But pssssttttt You have a brother, who plays hockey! If this man whore messes with you, go to Kane, and he'll mess with him! And cough cough, I know, we're like a bajillion miles apart from one another, but I could totally come to your aid! I may be 5'4 but I play volleyball! I can bench 100 lbs! I have had a 1000 lb equine roll over my ribs, and I just got back up and rode! I punched a kid in the face and I stabbed him with a woodchip for taking my I-Pod. I broke someone's nose by spiking a volleyball into their face... I think I could take him! *rolls up sleeves* And if he hurts me.... I have an Aunt who is a Lawyer, and an Uncle who is a Doctor... A Foot Doctor xD (Not making fun of his job btw) heheh xD
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Post by ShadowWarrior on Mar 11, 2013 23:08:22 GMT -5
Hahaha! True that cous! Im sure I could take him but a girl has her doubts  |
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Post by Internal Nova on Mar 11, 2013 23:09:40 GMT -5
Righttt, just kick his ass, show him who's boss, and when it doubt, whip out your skates, they could easily be used as a lethal weapon. Or just sing a high note in his ear... Or just go old school and punch him in the nose xD
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Post by yangyin on Mar 13, 2013 16:22:43 GMT -5
My advice; just be safe around him and ask your friend if she's lying. Most of the time, they'll deny, but look straight in her eyes; if they darken, she's lying.
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Post by Lost-In-Flames on Apr 1, 2013 5:42:28 GMT -5
I had a similar problem. But I interfered, and I lost my bestie. So I wouldn't go after the guy, though it honestly pisses me off too. Besides, if he tries to touch you, go get a couple of guys to beat his ass (I somehow got a bunch of friends that play football, so I just go to them) or get your brother xD they are useful aswell. But I wouldn't keep talking about him to Maria. Just ask her again, and make it quite clear that you are serious, and don't want her around him. If she keeps talking to him, then she isn't a good friend anyway.
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Post by ShadowWarrior on Apr 1, 2013 19:43:41 GMT -5
Thanks Flames!  |
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Post by Lost-In-Flames on Apr 1, 2013 21:02:20 GMT -5
Anytime
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