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Post by heartnsoul on Apr 8, 2013 20:09:32 GMT -5
Okay, it all started at school. You know how I was going out with that guy? Well, he dumped me. Then I got upset and mad, and even though I promised I wouldn't, I told his secret. I only did it because he asked out my BFF right in my face. Then we went to lunch and I got a bag of chips and an ice-cream. People started calling me fat and that I should "Cut down on the ice-cream." This really upset me because I have a soft spot about weight. I weigh more than most of my friends. Plus, we took this fitness test, and it said that I would turn obese if I didn't work out more. This brought me to tears. So after that, I told the counselor about it, and my abuser, or bully, was talked to. I then got pulled in and we talked it over, blah, blah, blah. Everything was fine until the next day. So I walked into school and we were laughing, and then someone made a comment about my weight and everyone laughed. My abuser, or bully, said that he would say something back, but that I would go tell. They now called me the "Taddletale". Then a few weeks later, I found out why my boyfriend broke up with me. He told one of my guy friends and he told me that my ex broke up with me because I was a "mess" and "fat". This ticked me off and now I get teased on most of the time. It has gotten better, but now I come home depressed and sad, with an attitude and get into trouble with my parents. My parents talked to me about it and that it needs to stop, but how do they know what it is like to be bullied? They are being tougher than usual, and I get more and more lonely everyday. It stinks and I feel like I can never escape. I watched cyperbu//y recently and it really showed emotions. I wanted to take it to school and have everyone watch it, but I figured everyone would make fun of me and my movie choices. Not to mention my enemies, the popular girls. I feel like hanging around with guys more, because girls are soo dramatic. We made a club at school to get away from the popular girls and we, the group, split up because people kept joining. I am so upset, confused, and depressed. How can I get out of this funk? I really need an answer. Thanks.
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Post by Internal Nova on Apr 8, 2013 20:18:46 GMT -5
Well, if they tease you, ignore it, or act like it is a compliment. They bullies will eventually get confused and it will really bother them how it doesn't bother you. They'll eventually stop, I know because this has happened to me before. If it gets too bad, ask your parents to move, or ask to change schools. I also suggest, start the club up again, but only allow your best friends in. Also, good, hangout with the guys, and if people keep calling you fat or overweight, just smile and say, "Well then how do you think I have so much personality?!" And just walk away without saying anything else.
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Post by heartnsoul on Apr 8, 2013 20:19:49 GMT -5
Thanks maximum. You seem to have an answer to EVERYTHING, and that, my friend, is a good thing.
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Post by Internal Nova on Apr 8, 2013 20:26:15 GMT -5
Hahahanks, and you're welcome. I have gone through this, and so what if the chart says you'll be obese, so what, others say! People are too damn judgemental these days, and need to look what is in the inside, not the looks or the weight, but the personailty. To others you may not be the prettiest girl, but to me, and to yourself, you're pretty damn gorgeous, and fuck it, you're born this way, and you're unique! Everyone has that special guy out there, and honestly, I am positive mine got hit by a bus, but yours is out there waiting, with a bouquet of flowers, in a suit, and with a ring, saying, "There she is. She's going to be my wife some day." Infront of all of his friends, no matter what your weight is, or what your looks are.  |
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Post by heartnsoul on Apr 8, 2013 20:36:32 GMT -5
AWWWWWW!!!! Damn! Way to make me cry! I feel like, your my bestest friend. And I'm not fat, I'm stocky. I have a husky type build, like kickass type build. "I can kick your ass if you push me." kinda build. I'm not a stick, or a fashion model. And just so you know, your guy did not get hit by a bus. He's waiting too, ready to kick ass right beside you, any day, any hour, minute, or second. I'll bet you he will come very soon, Maxi!
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Post by Internal Nova on Apr 8, 2013 20:43:15 GMT -5
Welcome, I am happy to make you feel better, and lol thanks, probably stuck in a tree or something |
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Post by heartnsoul on Apr 8, 2013 20:46:15 GMT -5
No kidding, guys these days. Too worried about their smell than what lies in their face. LOL
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Post by Internal Nova on Apr 8, 2013 20:47:07 GMT -5
indeed!!
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Post by heartnsoul on Apr 8, 2013 20:49:28 GMT -5
Or what they look like. I'm looking for a guy that is charming, creative, can play on words, can describe love, and that can make me smile. I also want one who is smart, I'm sick of how guys thing about how cool they are.
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Post by Internal Nova on Apr 8, 2013 20:52:45 GMT -5
I just want a playful, funny, romantic, smart, gentlemen guy One who likes me for me. I am stocky like you, I have strong legs, built, strong built arms, and a flat stomach, working on my way to a six pack. I weigh about 120 pounds, no fat. I wear sweatpants, a tee shirt, and a sweatshirt, nothing fancy, and I wear my hair down and straightened, or up in a ponytail, nothing cool. I am NOT going to change for a guy, and if he wants me to change completely, hit the damn road jack and find some barbie who will change for you!  |
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Post by heartnsoul on Apr 8, 2013 20:54:02 GMT -5
Haha, same here. I have to go, sweetcheeks! Love ya! Bye! See you later, tomorrow actually.
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Post by Internal Nova on Apr 8, 2013 20:58:01 GMT -5
Lolol byee!!
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Post by ShadowWarrior on Apr 9, 2013 15:20:51 GMT -5
Oh my gosh Heart I didn't see this until now!! I read through Maxie's advice and she is totally right. Ignore them and make smart ass comments if they keep it up. Or you could be like "I know you are but what am I?" That's a classic. Kids are pretty damn cruel these days. I remember my depression started when my boyfriend broke up with me. I was depressed for maybe a few months and you get that feeling where even though you say "I'm fine" or "I'm ok" and your friend, sibling or parent would just say "No you're not" and hug you. Your situation is way worse than mine though. If these people are bullying you and calling you fat, they must be super jealous of your great and amazing personality. Just he who you are and stock with your friends. Your ex is a jerk. For breaking up with you over something that shouldn't matter. You are a great person. Never forget that |
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Post by Internal Nova on Apr 9, 2013 15:43:27 GMT -5
This is why we're cousins Shadow hahah
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Post by heartnsoul on Apr 9, 2013 16:24:42 GMT -5
Dank ya! You too, Shadow and lol maxi.
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